Parents as Educators

Al-Gazaly opinion is as follows:

Coaching kids is something that is very important, because children as a trust for his parents. Sacred heart children like pearls, bright, clean of all that is meted upon it and leaning on him. So when he was accustomed to the good will he be good, be happy in this world and happy in the afterlife, while the father and the pendidiknya also get the reward.

Child in its development towards maturity always need guidance from parents. Similarly in instilling the attitude to learning for children, of course, need guidance from parents at home.

Parents as tutors or educators is an educational sub-systems or components that must exist and contribute to determine the education system, even holding a function and a central role in achieving educational goals, even holding a function and a central role in achieving educational goals. H. Abdurrahman, explaining that education is the motor of the mechanism of continuing education system, dynamist and stabilizers and mobilizers, educational events to reach the goal of education in order to achieve educational goals by actively involving learners.

Thus educators carry out its duties and obligations to educate a conscious and responsible for motivation assumed the mandate and trust given to him. Parents guide because it's an obligation, because the child is a trust given by God to him. Conversely, if a parent as a coach is not unable to perform duties as a coach that might be due to busy with work or other reasons, then they in turn will have difficulty learning. Education of children is a parental responsibility fully. But should the demands of parents of children carrying out learning activities should not be too heavy for her children. In this case, parents need to remember and adjust to the child's development. Too many demands for the child will also cause bad things.

Keep in mind that child rearing should be tailored to the talents and abilities of children themselves, in addition to considering the ability and willingness of parents.

How do parents educate their children is also associated with parental knowledge about ways to educate the good. ability to properly educate parents at least supported by the level of education. Parents education level is high enough, can adjust the guidance which he gave to the needs of their children.

Families in this case the parent education level is high enough to educate their children properly. otherwise parents are low education levels tend to educate their children by not precise.

Causes of Divorce

Here are seven tips to know the main reason for a divorce.

1. Communication.

Lack of opportunity to communicate an intense, with good quality. For married couples, it is important to have room and emotion to be able to confide in each other, confide either praise, hope, pleasure and resentment.

Both sides need to have a full awareness and intention to discuss the issue with a cool head. The purpose of the discussion is to find a way out, not just to vent emotions.

2. Unrealistic expectations.

Hope the pair will change after marriage. This is related to the understanding of each party to the spouse. Often disputes occur because of the change of the pair.

Though the protest behavior is not necessarily physically or mentally harm a partner. Couples need to willingly lower expectations for the behavior of couples who are not of principle.

3. 'Power' In Marriage.

Some wanted a husband in control, anyone wants a wife who manage. Yet this is only a matter of consensus. Looks are not important, but in fact can lead the couple to court religious.

4. Role conflict.

In marriage there will be division of roles, such as who care for children, who make a living. This could be a source of conflict and cause discontent among the husband and wife. Especially now that many wives career.

5. Love faded.

Some say rather than given a feeling of falling in love, better given the strength to keep love. Because it needs to be nurtured to keep lit. Couples who are married, no matter how many years, needs to keep burning love, one with expressing affection.

6. Affair (The Third).

The existence of a third person to make a marriage difficult to sustain. In addition to the blind love, the most important things that actually make the marriage broke up the road is trust.

Once trust is lost, it is no longer reinforcing factor. Thus, married couples need to think long before playing with fire.

7. Sex.

This is the smallest of reasons for breakdown of a household, because sex can be ignored when a deep sense of affection are still preserved.