Fostering Emotional Child

At the beginning of its growth, a child does not have an emotional reaction to an abstract object such as love of beauty, honesty, truth, ethics and aesthetics as owned by an adult.

In the foster child's emotional relationship between parent and child is very important because parents are the center of the spiritual life of the child and as a cause berkenalannya with the great outdoors, then each child's emotional reactions and thoughts in the future, influenced by his attitude toward his parents since childhood.

According to A. Marzuki Choiran there are three criteria for parents who fail in fostering emotional intelligence of children, namely:

1) Parents who behave indifferent, ignore, underestimate and do not want to ignore the children's emotions.

2) Parents who behave negatively to children's emotions, and sometimes give punishment to the child when the child express his emotions.

3) Parents who can accept children's emotions and empathize with him, but do not want to provide guidance and conduct restrictions with real behavior.